Quit looking for love for it will find you. Lay down your cards and let fate work its magic. You don’t have to force yourself to find someone who will love you. Always remember that the sweetest love is the one unexpected.

I’m not really bothered by people who try to find love. I’ve been there. It’s the feeling of desperation and hopelessness if you will still ever find love, orWILL YOU STILL BE LOVED?

And coming from my point of view, I have been single (if singlehood is what we’re pertaining to) for two years. A few flings and a a lot of lonely nights, it’s where you will ask yourself if whether you’ll give up chasing love. It’s those moments where you find love at desperate times, forcing yourself to love someone or vice versa. You try to bring back the past that has no intentions of coming back. At the end of the day, you get used to it. You get used to the feeling of independence, the feeling of being able to survive without love.

I must tell you, you have to stop forcing yourself to love. It’s at the most silent moments that love will come and shout itself to you. A point of desperation is not a good time but love comes when you’re at your best; when you finally see the point of living is not just for finding someone or having a girlfriend or boyfriend. It’s living for yourself. It’s true, you cannot love someone when you haven’t completely love yourself. You have to accept your weaknesses for they will be your strengths later on. 

And I have found the love of my life. I had to admit that I’ve tried everything to find love. Then, I got tired. I stopped looking for it. Just like playing “tagu-taguan”. The person you’re looking for will continue to hide, not until you stop looking for him/her. 

And lastly, believe me that the sweetest love is the one unexpected. A birthday surprise wouldn’t be that exciting if you knew about it nor a roller coaster ride, if you knew where it will lead you to. 

Super last! Just wait for it. When it comes, that’s the time you decide if you’re gonna lay down your arms and let love hug you like you’ve finally came home.